One of the greatest compliments I’ve received has to be what a friend said to me this past week. She said ” You know what I love about you sandra, You just don’t give a f***. You march to the beat of your own drum and if someone says anything about it you just say… Bitch don’t kill my vibe”. In my 20’s I spent a lot of time worrying about how others perceived me. Was I wearing the right thing? Did I say the right thing? Was I at all the right places? What did all of this get me? THE WRONG FRIENDS. You attract what you put out and what I was putting out was a whole lot of self absorbed people who valued the wrong things in life. Your vibe attracts your tribe. My 30’s came a long with a sense of peace. I let go of anything and anyone who didn’t inspire me, motivate me or accepted me as I am. Who am I? I am ME…………Unapologetically Sandra D.